I grew up in the fifties, the golden age of the television situation comedy.
With shows like ‘Leave it to Beaver’ and ‘Father Knows Best’ we all gathered
around the television to laugh at the silly families. Now, as a father myself, I
look back and see things a little differently. I realized I wanted to take the
parent’s side more and more. Since my child is of the female gender I
immediately was drawn to ‘8 Simple Rules for Dating My Teenaged Daughter’. This
was something I could identify with, a man trying to provide for his family
while coping with his daughters growing up. Based on the very funny novel by W.
Bruce Cameron, this series had an excellent cast, witty writing and very human
stories. Now some may say that a series like this is corny, well in some ways it
is but I liked it from the start. First of all it deals with something that both
parents and teens can identify with, puberty. The series does not focus on one
view point. The kids and parents are both well represented with humor and heart.
Paul Hennessy (John Ritter) is a man who just to do right by his family. He
gave up the job he loved, a sports writer, to become a living section columnist
so he could be at home more. He replaced his constant road trips to follow teams
for a weekly column he could write from home. This allows his wife Kate (Katey
Sagal) to go back to work as a nurse. What Paul didn’t fully think out is the
job of watching the kids has recently changed. They are now all teenagers.
Eldest daughter Bridget (Kaley Cuoco) is a typical blond stereotype. She is
overly concerned with the right look, fashion, boys and her status as one of the
popular clique. Next there is the middle child, Kerry (Amy Davidson). With her
full head of rich red hair she is the moody, serious one. Kerry is always sin
the shadow of her older sister. Instead of going to an endless stream of parties
like Bridget she would much rather read a good book or draw in her ever present
sketch book. The youngest of the Hennessy clan is Rory (Martin Spanjers) know to
his father as ‘the boy’. As is the case with many younger brothers his greatest
enjoyment is snitching on his sisters. When Bridget is late for her curfew he
approaches his parents saying he can’t sleep because he is worried his sister is
still out. As the season starts he is starting to notice girls and realizes that
his sisters just might be of help in his adolescent designs on the young ladies
in his class. Too Paul Bridget will always be ‘Beach Girl’ and Kerry ‘Care
Bear’. His little girls are becoming women but he won’t let go of his view of
them as little carefree children. This doesn’t sit well with the girls who want
more independence.
This first season is more than the usual parent-teen battlefield. The girls
are undergoing some drastic changes. Bridget begins to realize that she is
capable of being and acting smarter than she usually does. After a few betrayals
by her beautiful, in crowd friends Bridget starts to grow up and realizes there
is more to life than the right shade of lipstick. Kerry begins to notice boys
herself. While once content to be the loner she now wants a relationship. Rory
moves from a constant desire to have a monkey to wanting Missy (Daniella Monet)
or one of several cute girls in his class. Things get complicated when Bridget
breaks up with her boyfriend Kyle (Billy Aaron Brown) who winds up dating Kerry.
This is a problem for Paul since Kyle’s father, Tommy (Larry Miller) works for
the same paper as Paul and is always riding him about his decision to quit
sports. Kate is happy about returning to nursing, a job she loves, but has the
feeling that she is deserting her girls when the need her feminine touch the
most.
When Paul learns that Kyle has moved from dating Bridget to Kerry he has a
dream that sets up one of the funnier scenes. He dreams that Kyle is living with
both Bridget and Kerry in a little apartment. He is the building manager and his
wife a horny housewife sitting on the couch. Rory appears as the swinger who
lives next door. If this sounds familiar it is. This is a nice little homage to
the series that made Ritter famous, ‘Three’s Company’. Its little touches like
this that makes this one of my favorite sit-coms. There are lessons to be
learned in every episode but it doesn’t come across like an after school
special. The parents are flawed but not played as the dolts that are used in
most TV of this genre. Sure Paul is sometimes ridiculous but he is the father of
two beautiful teenage girls. I remember once telling my daughter that the right
first time for sex is your twenty-fifth wedding anniversary.
There is also a great dynamic between the sisters. There is rivalry between
them such a when Kerry beats out Bridget to become a cheerleader. Still, there
is a bond between the two girls. When the chips are down they know they can put
aside their differences and lean on each other. Of course, they can always be
counted on to join forces against their pesky brother. There are some great
little touches that help the audience to believe this is a real family. For
example references to the dreaded ‘cabin by the lake’. Dad loves going there for
the family vacation but the girls feel they have out grown it. In one episode
Paul wants to go there but everyone has their own choice of location. He starts
a contest where everyone has to give up something. The last one to succeed gets
to choose. Paul has to give up the remote control, Kate her coffee, Bridget the
phone, Kerry her sarcastic attitude and Rory snitching on his sisters. While
many of the scenes are funny the end is poignant as Paul discovers some things
that weigh heavily on Kerry’s mind. They fight, they argue but there is love in
this family and that is something that television could use more of.
This was the last full season of television for the late John Ritter. He has
such a natural manner to his style that he was always a delight to watch. Very
few television actors had his sense of comic timing or ability to pull off a
pratfall. He plays Paul as a concerned father who knows that with his daughters
he is over his head in the parenting department. He means well but always seems
to annoy his children. Katey Sagal has gone from being one of the worst mothers
on television (Married with Children) to one of the best balanced. As Kate she
tries to balance her children coming of age, a job and a husband who is not
ready to let go of his little girls. She is the prefect straight ‘man’ for
Ritter but is also afforded many opportunities to get her own quips in. In her
role as Bridget Kaley Cuoco goes beyond the blond bimbo role. It starts out with
her as an air head but Cucco soon is able to add greater depth to her character.
Although she plays the younger sister Amy Davidson is actually six years older
than Cucco. She portrays Kerry as a confused girl on the verge of adulthood. She
always looked down on Bridget’s popularity and boyfriends but now finds herself
wanting some of it for herself.
The ABC television network releases this first season through parent company
Buena Vista. Typical of BV release it is doe with great care for the technical
specifications. For a half hour format television series the full screen video
is crisp and clear with a well done color balance. The Dolby Stereo soundtrack
is fairly robust and presents the dialogue well. The only extra is a blooper
reel that showcases just how well the cast got along. This series is worth while
to add to any collection. It is something that the whole family can enjoy time
and time again. It is also a must have for all the John Ritter fans out there.
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Use your hands on my daughter and you'll lose them after.
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You make her cry, I make you cry.
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Safe sex is a myth. Anything you try will be hazardous to your health.
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Bring her home late, there's no next date.
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Only delivery men honk. Dates ring the doorbell. Once.
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No complaining while you're waiting for her. If you're bored, change my
oil.
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If your pants hang off your hips, I'll gladly secure them with my staple
gun.
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Dates must be in crowded public places. You want romance? Read a book.
Posted 07/17/07