I can understand the fantasy that many men have about polygamy. The thought
of being able to sleep with more than one woman is one that many men have had. I
also understand that there are people who do live in a pleura marriage. I have
had the same wife for over 33 years, a daughter, two sisters in law and a mother
in law. That is more than enough women in my life. The thought of have to
mediate between multiple wives, a squad of children and multiple in laws is just
something that fills me with dread. This is the life of the characters in the
HBO hit series, ‘Big Love’. It shows the lives of a family that consists of a
husband, three sister wives and seven children with another on the way. The
financial and emotional drain of one household is normally enough for a man but
this one has to deal with everything in triplicate. It is sort of matrimonial
bureaucratic living. Typical of HBO they show a man who seems to be a regular
guy leaving home and going to work. What HBO does is pull back the curtain to
show what is not immediately apparent, his polygamy. The show is dramatic, well
written and extremely well acted and directed. With the end of the Sopranos and
the Wire on its way out this remains the one jewel in the HBO crown. The
executives and legal department over at HBO are quick to remind people that the
religion shown here does not reflect the Church of the Later Day Saints. It is
loosely based on a fundamental offshoot but typically makes it clear that this
practice is not acceptable in the general religion.
The man in the center of the story here is Bill Henrickson (Bill Paxton). He
is a successful business man owning two large hardware stores. In public he is
often seen with his Barb (Jeanne Tripplehorn). She is actually his first wife.
In polygamous terms this means she is the wife that is legally married and acts
as the general manager of the family. She is referred to as ‘Boss Lady’ by her
sister wives, usually behind her back. Barb and Bill have three children; Ben
(Douglas Smith), Sarah (Amanda Seyfried) and Teeny (Jolean Wejbe). Bill also has
wife number two, Nicki Grant (Chloë Sevigny) with two small children and third
wife Margene Heffman (Ginnifer Goodwin) also with two little ones and as of the
end of last season another on the way. As the season starts the proverbial cat
is out of the bag. Barb was excepting a ‘Mother of the Year’ award from the
governor and someone told the people in attendance that she is in a polygamous
family. Barb had just gone back to school for her Masters Degree but this
revelation knocked her completely off balance. She would ignore her household
responsibilities taking endless laps in the pool. She is also caught in the
middle of an increasing number of arguments with Bill and the other wives. Her
eldest, Ben has come out in favor of polygamy much to the chagrin of Barb. She
is beginning to have doubts about the viability of multiple marriages. She is
also concerned that Margene is getting to close to Ben. They are only a few
years apart and there seems to be an attraction there.
Bill has a lot of additional pressure on him this season. He is trying to
gain more financial stability by going into a new business. Unfortunately, it is
video gambling machines. The company that is selling the business is okay with
polygamist but the dark side is there is another interested, Bill’s father in
law, Roman Grant (Harry Dean Stanton). Roman is the father of Nicki, the head of
United Effort Brotherhood and the Profit, the head of the compound Bill and
Nicki came from. Roman is rich and powerful and is has been an enemy of Bill and
his family for many years. Bill’s best friend and right hand man at work, Don
Embry (Joel McKinnon Miller), a fellow polygamist, is dead set against taking on
a gambling business but remains loyal to Bill. The wives demand a vote on the
new business resulting in Barb against and Nicki in favor. This leaves the tie
breaking vote to Margene who is not used to any power in the family. Nicki
steals a large sum of money from her father and is caught in a power struggle
between Roman and his psychopathic son Alby (Matt Ross). When Roman is shot by a
rival faction Ably is there to have himself declared the new Profit.
Margene is going through a lot this season. She is pregnant and has wide mood
swings. She also finds out that Bill has been dating another woman, a waitress
named Ana (Branka Katic). Margene is overjoyed at the thought of a forth wife
and befriends Ana in secret. Now Margene wants to be more than a wife only at
home. She wants Bill to take out her in public, places that don’t know Barb, and
introduce her as his wife. The turmoil of the Hendrickson households extends to
Sarah. She starts to date a man she met in a polygamy recovery group. He is much
older and more experienced that her which concerns Bill when he finds out. Also
making Sarah’s life difficult is the appearance of Rhonda (Daveigh Chase) the
manipulative 15 year old bride to be for Roman. Rhonda’s main goal is to get on
TV as a polygamy survivor to boost her singing career.
This is the type of series that on paper may not seem to be interesting or
perhaps interesting for the wrong reason. It defiantly demonstrates the down
side of a polygamist relationship with the added pressures on every front. The
stories are built slowly, paced to perfection. They give enough time for the
audience to get to know and understand the huge cast of characters. Just trying
to keep straight the family trees is more than the usual effort required for
television. A lot of the situations that Bill and his families get into are in
direct response to their marital arrangements, other such as teen rebellion,
business rivalries and are common to most of us. True most married men are not
allowed to date but for Bill this is more an interview process than anything
else. In some ways this series can be counted as a night time soap opera. There
are twists and turns in the numerous intersecting plot lines that any soap would
love to have.
This is perhaps one of the finest casts ever assembled for a dramatic series.
Almost all of them have made a mark on the big screen and help make every
episode like a feature film. Bill Paxton gives his character an emotional depth
that makes the audience care about what is going on in his life. He plays Bill
as a deeply religious man who is convinced that he is worshiping God the way he
should. While he wants to provide for his family if he can take down Roman that
is just icing on the cake. This gives Bill a human side, one that plots against
someone in his way. Jeanne Tripplehorn has a daunting task with her role as
Barb. She shows the many sides a woman like this has to exhibit. She loves her
husband and has come to truly love her sister wives but enough is enough she
does not want to split her time with Bill more for a forth. Tripplehorn has the
emotional control to show the audience that Barb is a real woman in an unusual
circumstance but still one that can be identified with. Having come up from the
fashion world’s ‘it’ girl to a former queen of the Indies Chloë Sevigny has a
strong background in unusual roles. She does present Nicky as a bit of a brat,
always the princess, daughter of the Profit but now just the number two wife.
She plays Barb and Margene against one another for her own personal agenda. You
have to just love the performance of Ginnifer Goodwin as Mergene. She is sweet,
almost innocent and child like. This is contrasted by the information this
season that she is also the most sexually adventurous of the three. She always
means well and tries to do her best but is often lost amidst the plots and plans
that surround her.
This second season release is excellent with incredibly robust audio and
brilliant video. The video is in anamorphic 1.78:1 and has a great depth to the
color palette. The Dolby 5.1 audio is realistic and gives the whole room the
feeling of being there. If you are not a fan of this show yet but love well
constructed television then get this. It is almost certain that you will wan the
first season as well.
Posted 11/29/07