Most of have one important thing in common, we belong to families. As we grow
up this most basic of human social structures change and expand to include the
significant others of siblings. People rapidly learn that they have to show some
degree of love and respect for blood relatives but when it comes to extended
family members all bets are off. There are also the natural changes that occur
as the members of the family grow up. In their childhoods siblings may be best
of friends but as they become adults this relationship may become estranged. The
film ‘Margot at the Wedding’ is about one such family. It was written and
directed by Noah Baumbach whose previous work ‘The Squid and the Whale’ rapidly
became the hit of the art house set. While not up to the standard set by that
film ‘Margot and the Wedding’ offers a darkly humorous incite into a barely
functional family. Baunbach takes on the creation of these characters with
brutal honesty. While ‘Squid’ dealt with the effect of parental divorce on the
children this film focuses on adult children and their parents. Because of this
the tone is darker and the situations often uncomfortably close to home for many
in the audience. If this film is to be considered less than its predecessor one
possible reason may be audiences tend to empathize more for films with children
than messed up adults.
In this film Baumbach moves away from the usual Hollywood character
prototypes. These people are cut from a more realistic cloth. While watching you
will hope for a happy movie ending but considering the over all mood of the film
there is little hope for that. The catalyst for the plot is a family reuniting
for a wedding. There is nothing like that event to bring out the worse in
people. Most of us have been to a few and the combination of emotions and
alcoholic beverages tend to expose the nerves of the best of us. If anything
while watching you will be thankful that your family is no where near as
dysfunctional as the ones portrayed here. Not since ‘Who’s Afraid of Virginia
Woof’ has any group of characters been so set upon getting under the skin of
others. You get the whole spectrum of potential family arguments here ranging
from parental disappointment to sibling rivalry. There are even a few skeletons
that get to fall, or rather get dragged, out of the family closet. The
difficulty that Baumbach faces here is presenting a film that has a cast of
unlikable characters who are unable to evoke the slightest iota of sympathy.
This is not a film for the casual movie buff. It requires the ability to
appreciate style and technique and separate that from the presentation of the
characters. It is like some people you might know. Socially you have to have
contact with them but there is little if anything about them you like. It might
be best to consider viewing this film as if you were an anthropologist observing
the strange customs of foreign society. You don’t have to fully relate to them
to understand how they treat each other. Then again this film might just hit too
close to home. In that case consider it a catharsis.
The film begins on a train with a son, Claude (Zane Pais) buying a cup of
coffee for his mother Margot (Nicole Kidman). They are returning to the family’s
east coast estate for the wedding of her sister Pauline (Jennifer Jason Leigh)
to her fiancé Malcolm (Jack Black). Margot has some trepidation since she has
been estranged from her sister for many years now. As Margot and Claude rid the
train the mother rest her head on her son’s shoulder and begins to set up the
coming attacks on her sister asking him if he would marry someone you only knew
for a year. Not only is this inappropriate for Margot to ask Claude is barley in
puberty and has no basis to answer. This sets Margot up as a person who craves
validation from others. After taking a ferry to the island where the family
lives they are picked up by Malcolm and Pauline’s daughter Ingrid (Flora Cross)
who is a bit younger than Claude. Margot’s husband Jim (John Turturro) is
obvious by his absence as noticed by Ingrid. External factors begin to loom over
the impending wedding when the next door neighbors, the Vogels (Michael Cullen
and Enid Graham) demand an old tree near the property line be cut down. Both
Margot and Pauline remember that tree as a place of happy childhood memories
back when they got along. Margot is a published author of short stories and as
it is mentioned in the film well know to a small group of people. She is the
type of author featured in the literary section of newspapers but never makes it
to the television talk show circuit. In contrast Pauline has lived the bohemian
life style and in Margot’s eyes has drifted through life. Malcom is a self
proclaimed artist who seems to have made unemployment into his only true art
form. At a book signing Margot meets up with an author she knows from New York,
Dick Koosman (Ciarán Hinds). She is hopeful that with her husband back home some
sparks will ignite. Dick has a teenaged daughter Maisy (Halley Feiffer) who
catches the attention of Claude. Margot lashes out at just about everyone
around. She attacks Pauline for her dreamy attitude towards life, Malcolm for
being a loser and even gets a few jabs in on her own son.
Baunbach does an admirable job here both as writer and director. The script
is worded near perfectly reflecting the ever changing emotional state of the
characters. Many times during the film the dialogue is difficult to take. No
matter how well your family gets along you can identify with the turmoil these
people are going through. The lack of sympathy the audience may feel towards
them is assisted by the fact that many of their problems are self induced. As a
director Baunbach makes a few stumbles. Some of the scenes are literally so dark
it is difficult to make out the characters. This tends to add to the over all
feel of the piece but at the cost of throwing some of the flow off. The pacing
is uneven but in this case it works. Families like this wax and wane,
allegiances changing from moment to moment. It is only natural for an emotional
blow up to be followed by a slower period of sulking, reflection and doubt.
The cast is the best part of this entire film. After some dismal failures at
the box office with such things as ‘Bewitched’ it is great to see Nicole Kidman
show that she is one of the best actresses today. Under a flop of mousy brown
hair Kidman gives a performance that is gripping. She wears this character like
a pair of favorite jeans. She inhabits Margot and makes the audience believe in
the presentation. Kidman demonstrates a range here that is a wonder to watch.
Playing the faultless counterpoint to Kidman is Jennifer Jason Leigh. She is
plays her role with a dreamy eyed world view but with a seething resentment just
under the surface. Together these too actresses show a possible reason for the
sister’s failure to get along; they are both too equally matched. They portray
Pauline and Margot as two women that have tried to upstage the other for years
but never seemed able to manage it. The tree the neighbors want to cut down
comes to symbolize this. Pauline is willing to let go of it like she is willing
to let go of the past with her sister. On the other hand Margot climbs the tree
and hugs it tightly, wanting to go back to those more carefree days. This is an
uncharacteristic role for Jack Black. Usually he plays the fool, a man with no
internal censor who is willing to do anything for a cheap laugh. While he is
still the comedic element here he reins in his performance to the likeable
loser. For a man so able to go overboard it is something else to see him
actually act.
The film is presented to DVD by Paramount. As mentioned the video is
occasionally too dark but other than that the anamorphic 1.85:1 video works
well. The color palette is muted suiting the wintry setting and emotions. The
Dolby 5.1 is mostly in the background doing its job. The channel separation is
excellent but in a film like this there is little for the sub woofer to do. The
only extra is a commentary track by Baunbach and Leigh. It is better than most
and displays they devotion both had for the project. This is a film that has its
flaws but overall is a fascinating watch.
Posted 02/01/08