The family is not only the foundation of our society it is the bedrock used
to construct much of the television programming that we invite into our homes
each night. Typically the format employed is the sit-com but the networks have
also depended on the family unit as a basis for more dramatic presentations. In
recent years there seems to be an imperative operating in the writing
departments of the networks that families depicted in family based dramas must
be concerned with what is popularly referred to as the dysfunctional family.
While such families do exist and I’ll even grant the studio executives that
their numbers are steadily increasing but they hardly represent the targeted
audience demographic. Admittedly these series can be enjoyable or at least a
steady guilty pleasure. On the other hand they are rapidly becoming pedantic.
This is one reason why I became a fan of the NBC drama, ‘Parenthood’. It follows
the sizable California centered Braverman family. The first aspect of this
series that caught my attention is it eschewed the easily path of the
dysfunction family in favor of showing a more centered albeit quirky family.
There are plenty of mishaps, misadventure and mistakes inherent in this
collection of people but underlying it all is a sense of reality. Dysfunction is
overdone, played in film and television over the top destroying any semblance of
enjoyment possible by the premise. Quirky, on the other hand, is something we
all understand. We come from families that although messed up somehow still
muddle through and function. This is what the Bravermans portray; life happens
but families survive and perhaps even flourish despite any obstacles. We are
usually quite reassured that we are not as bad as the dysfunction family we are
watching. Enjoyment is derived from relief. With ‘Parenthood’ entertainment
originates from a different source. We see a family as flawed as ours but they
persevere, pulling together as a family to get through the adversities common to
us all. In ‘Parenthood’ our enjoyment stems from a strong sense of
identification perhaps even a touch of admiration for their cohesiveness and
familiar sense of family identification. It is not an individual left to face
the vagaries of life it is the Bravermans. It is a gentle family series that is
enjoyable to watch and that is a lot better than most shows can boast.
The series was almost pulled at the end of the season under consideration
here, the second. It received a last minute reprieved when NBC cancelled ‘Law &
Order: LA’ which became the tip of the ice berg for NBC dramatic series
cancellations. The series previous survived a major cast substitution when Maura
Tierney departed before the first episode aired to wage a fight against cancer.
She was replaced by Lauren Graham, veteran of one of the highest regarded family
dramas, ‘The Gilmore Girls’. All of this behind the scenes drama could have
easily destroyed a series that barely made it through its sophomore year but
like the Bravermen family ‘Parenthood’ managed to pull in unison and survived.
As the story picks up in the second season the family is facing an inherent
aspect of life, change. Eldest son, Adam (Peter Krause) is beset by problems
both at work and home. The running shoe business he helped to build had been
sold to a flakey internet millionaire with unorthodox ideas about the future
direction of the company. Compounding the difficulty is Adam’s sister Sarah (by
Lauren Graham) has struck up a romantic interest in the boss. Back at home Adam
and his wife Kristina (Monica Potter) are dealing with a considerable amount of
stress. Their son Max (Max Burkholder) has increasing behavioral issues due to
his Asperger syndrome. They also have a sixteen year old daughter, Haddie (Sarah
Ramos), the ultimate good girl, straight ‘A’, volunteers to help others
and supportive of her brother’s special needs. She becomes an unexpected source
of conflict when she becomes romantically involved with a man she met helping
out in a soap kitchen. He is a good man but much older, black, living on his own
and is a recovering alcoholic. Haddie is close to her cousin, Sarah’s girl Amber
(Mae Whitman). Amber has always been the wild child, drugs, boy, disobedience
etc. this season she is trying to set her life on a better course but is not
able to get herself there. One of the more poignant elements in this season is
the disintegration of Amber’s personality resorting to old coping mechanisms.
Julia (Erika Christensen) is the family ‘Type A’ overachiever. She juggles
corporate law being mother to Sydney (Savannah Paige Rae) and wife to stay at
home Dad, Joel (Sam Jaeger). Sydney is a gifted child and the pride of her
mother’s life. Julia is feeling the ticking of her biological clock and wants
another child. The youngest of the siblings is Crosby (Dax Shepard), the family
screw-up. He works in a recording studio and has a reputation as a lothario.
That was disrupted when a former girl friend, Jasmine (Joy Bryant) showed up
with their son, Jabbar (Tyree Brown). As much as Crosby tries to change they
break up and reconciliation threatened by his affair with his Max’s therapist.
Meanwhile the self improvement theme is reinforced when Sarah tries to write a
play. At the head of this family are patriarch Zeek (Craig T. Nelson) and his
wife, mother of this eclectic brood, Camille (Bonnie Bedelia). Even though their
children are all adults they still are at the ready with advice regardless of
whether it is requested or not.
The Bravermen family is an honest attempt and showing the comedy and drama
infused in regular, real life. Some circumstances are obviously manipulated for
effect, this is a scripted series after all, but the overall integrity of the
show is retained. It feels more ‘real’ than any so-called reality show I’ve ever
seen. This is due in large part to the smarty written scripts and how this
amazingly gifted cast brings those words to life. I feel like I know this
family; there is nothing forced or affected in that assessment. A broadcast
network finally saved a series of quality from cancelation.